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Extended Massive Orgasms: how to have them!



10 Steps to

By Doctor
Yvonne K. Fulbright


June 23rd, 2009


Extended Massive Orgasm –
the term itself packs a
powerful passion punch.

This experience of one
orgasmic wave after the next
has become the grand dame
of climaxes.

Those who pursue the
extended massive orgasm
(EMO) report enjoying more
of life’s joys in general.

After experiencing one of
these massive orgasms,
lovers have been known
to become nicer and more
generous in their relationship.

These results aren’t surprising
given that EMO makes for
more amazing orgasms.

It helps lovers realize
heightened intimacy,
increased sexual confidence,
and better communication

So what exactly are the
tricks of this
tantalizing trade?

An extended massive orgasm

can last minutes or hours,

offering up blissful sensations

at increasing intensities.

Here are the key

ingredients to making this


event happen …




Truly recognize

your pleasure.

You want to immediately

approve of your present


This needs to happen before

you can expect increased

feelings of pleasure.

This starts before you even

get in the sack by overcoming

anxieties you have about sex.

This may require identifying

limitations you’ve been taught

about sex, like how you’re

supposed to respond

(or not respond).

You need to then challenge

any social conditioning that

impedes upon your response.

Whether in therapy
or on your own,
doing so also allows you
to tackle any sex guilt,
which shuts down
your response.

Ridding yourself of the
uninvited “others” in your bed
will enable you to solely focus
on the orgasmic sensations,
including ones that come
from simply anticipating action.


Learn to relax.

Lovers have the tendency

to tense up during sexual


While a natural response,

it’s not conducive to

extended orgasm.

You need to be able to

surrender your nervous system

during genital stimulation.

It’s this letting go of tension

that allows you to embrace

your pleasure.

The process of learning

to relax is two-fold.


it involves actively

countering tension responses.

Little tricks like spreading

your toes or pushing out

your pelvic floor muscles

(as though going

to the bathroom)

can help you to relax.


you want to ensure that

you’re mentally relaxed,

letting your lover into your

personal space and

surrendering to her as well.







Get in the know.

The more we know

about our bodies,

sex, and sexual response,

the better we can

recognize sensations,

the more we can lose

ourselves in them.

If you’re not already,

become knowledgeable

about sexual response,

sexual anatomy,

and erotic techniques.

Part of this process involves

making friends with your

own and your partner’s


Masturbating further allows

you to explore your sexual

potential and what should

be employed when you’re

with your partner.



Give yourselves time

for pleasuring.

EMO is no rush job.

It can’t be experienced

as a quickie.

It involves flirting.

Try flashing one another,

and giving teasing touches.

Lovers may stimulate each

other by fantasizing out loud,

taking your time getting to

the genitals and hot spots.

Teasing allows for greater

energy awareness

and arousal,

and these are what make

the experience ultimately

so mind-blowing.





Touch for pleasure.

Stimulating a partner

shouldn’t be blasé.

You want to load on positive

attention in inviting more

of a pleasure fest.

Delighting what you’re

doing derives more

enjoyment for both parties.

You can show your partner

that you’re into the moment

by informing them about

what you’re going to do so

he can surrender more easily.

Highlighting a lover’s

physical responses further

enables them to tune into

the sensations.





Learn to

channel your energy.

You want to get

out of your head,

directing your energy

to your groin.

This will make for more

explosive results,

plus help you to further

tune into your sexual


An effective way to channel

your energy involves

visualizing that you’re sending

it down your body

to your genitals.




Become an
effective communicator.

To amp things up,
you may need to request
changes that will intensify
your pleasure if you’re
the receiver.

As the giver,
you may need to ask for
feedback or direction.

In either case,
asking for more will help
you to feel more.

The more attention you
can bring to the pleasure
at hand,
the greater your ability
to expand and amplify
that pleasure.

Add to this happy noises

and you’ve got the love

fest of the ages.

The moment is enhanced

in verbally acknowledgement

of your pleasure and showing


(Note: moans and

groans work well).

Giving approval can do

wonders for a lover’s ego.





Develop your

pelvic floor muscles.

Exercising your

pubbococcygeus (PC) muscle

will put you more in tune

with your sexual response.

It’s also what makes for

more powerful orgasms.

Your PCs can be engaged

as you’re being stimulated.





Have plenty of

lubricant handy.

You’ll be loving for

the long-haul.

So make sure you

avoid the friction, pain,

and discomfort that can

result from working each

other raw by using lube.



Do away with any

drive-thru mentality.

Having an EMO isn’t like

going for fast food.

You can’t go into it thinking

instant gratification.

Instead, approach it as

though training for a sport.

You want to have a

long-term plan to realize

one of life’s greatest pleasures.

Seek to have a

comfortable space,

one full of pillows,

sensual lighting,

and, basically,

inviting for the extended

orgasm experience.

Make such lovemaking a

regular romantic routine

that’s not so routine.

With all of these

components in place,

you can coax extended

massive orgasm by teasing

your lover using a variety

of manual stimulation


Books like Steve and Vera


“The Illustrated Guide

to Extended Massive Orgasm”

offer lovers a number of strokes,

pressures, and maneuvers

that bring your lover to a peak

and down again for the ride

of their lives.


lovers want to build pelvic

fullness and get as close to

the edge of orgasm as possible

and then back off to

postpone release.

In maintaining this dance

between peaking and coming

down only to peak again,

they can satiate one orgasmic

wave after the next.






Dr. Yvonne K. Fulbright

is a sex educator,

relationship expert,

columnist and founder of

Sexuality Source Inc.(LINK)

She is the author of several

books including,

“Touch Me There!

A Hands-On Guide to

Your Orgasmic Hot Spots.”






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